How One Dad Is Fighting For Men's Room Changing Tables

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Given that taking care of a baby is still largely viewed as a woman's job, men's bathrooms don't typically include changing tables. As a result, men who take on the task of changing a diaper in a public place often find themselves having to uncomfortably squat in a stall, as indicated by this photo of Florida-based father Donte Palmer, which went viral.

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Tag #ellendegeneres #ThrowBackThursday This picture has went viral turning itself into a campaign! #SquatForChange So many doors have opened and are continually opening! God is amazing! ❤️🙌🏽 I do have one goal I want to accomplish: I would love to sit on the set of @theellenshow with my wife and three boys! Call to Action: I need everyone to Tag Ellen until we get a response! Let's make this happen!

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The photo prompted other men to show their squatting-while-changing-diapers struggle with the hashtag #squatforchange.

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Ми багато пишемо і говоримо про грудне вигодовування і дружність до мам з малюками. Але сьогодні – не про жінок, і не про грудне вигодовування. Сьогодні – про дружність до чоловіків, до тат з малюками! ⠀ І історія – про те, як в Нью-Йорку вийшов закон, що передбачає встановлення пеленальних столиків у всії чоловічих туалетах 😍 ⠀ Якось у жовтні 2018 американець Донте Палмер прийшов з жінкою та трьома дітьми до ресторану. Через деякий час він зайшов до туалету, аби змінити підгузок свому сину Ліаму. Самостійно зробити це йому не вдалося, тож на допомогу прийшов його старший син, який і засняв на телефон момент зміни підгузку. ⠀ Після такого досвіду Палмер зробив пост у соцмережах з вимогою виправити цю несправедливість у чоловічих туалетах і встановити там пеленальні столики. Він запустив флешмоб #SquatForChange, закликаючи чоловіків робити фото, де вони намагаються змінити підгузок дитині у туалеті. ⠀ Репости поста з флешмобом отримали більше 500 тисяч лайків! ⠀ І ось вже у січні 2019 року в Нью-Йорку вступив в силу закон, що передбачає обов'язкове встановлення пеленальних столиків у всіх жіночих та чоловічих туалетах у всіх нових та відремонтованих публічних закладах. ⠀ Яскравий приклад того, що навіть одна людина може змінити все!!! ⠀ #babysss, #дружністьдобатьківтамалюків

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And the movement caught the attention of musician John Legend, who recently shared a video announcing that he's collaborating with Pampers to install 5,000 changing tables in public men's restrooms.

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Most dads have been there: you're out with your kids & there's no place to change their diaper. In honor of Father's Day, @PampersUS is providing 5,000 Koala Kare changing tables in public restrooms. Finally, no more diaper duty on your lap! #LoveTheChange #PampersPartner

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Finally, squatting be gone!

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We will continue to fight until we see change! Thanks for helping us spread awareness @adammwalters ❤️❤️🙌🏽🙌🏽 #squatforchange @urban_grub change could start with you! 🙌🏽

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After his initial photo went viral, Palmer and his wife launched a website called Squat for Change, where they sell merchandise, list upcoming events, and accept donations. According to the website, their mission is to create "a world of equity where changing your baby is a man thing too, just like moms."

The organization's goal is to make baby changing tables the norm in men's rooms across the country by the year 2021, and they are inviting people to join the movement with the hashtag #lovethechange, which is currently trending on Twitter.

Let's normalize dads being awesome & make it easier for them to take their kids out on their own without stressing about a diaper change!
Thank you @Pampers for doing so much by adding 5000 @KoalaKare changing tables to men's restrooms, but we #LoveTheChange & we want more!💕💕💕

— Mrs. Moore (@hannahs_moore) June 14, 2019

And for a personal testimony on the joys and challenges of fatherhood, read about how one man quit his job to be a stay-at-home dad.

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Diana Bruk Diana is a senior editor who writes about sex and relationships, modern dating trends, and health and wellness.Read moreFiled Under •  •  • Read This Next
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